Debunking Myths About Pets and Kids

It’s important to have realistic expectations about kids and pets before assuming that they’ll make a great team. Here’s the truth behind five myths about pets and children.

Myth 1: Puppies or Kittens

Young animals are fragile and injure easily. And be careful: puppies and kittens play by using their claws and/or teeth. They also require a lot of extra care and training—an extra burden if young children are around.

A friendly adult dog, a cat with a history of being around young kids or a calm, older animal might be a more appropriate family pet. Plus, older dogs are usually already housebroken and some even have had dog training!

Myth 2: Certain Breeds Are Better

Though it’s easy to think a smaller breed dog would be a good companion for kids, some small breeds are fragile. Some large breeds, such as Labrador retrievers or golden retrievers, are known for their love of children.

Every dog has his own distinct personality and temperament. All dogs, no matter what the size, need training and socialization. And remember, every dog has the potential to bite.

Myth 3: No Such Thing as Too Much Attention

Children should be taught to leave pets alone if they are resting, eating or playing with their toys. Let kids know the signs that a pet may give if he wants to be left alone. Growling, hissing or lip curling should never be tolerated as they can lead to biting behavior. Contact your veterinarian if your pet exhibits these dangerous behaviors.

Never leave young children unsupervised with pets. Kids should be shown how to gently and properly touch pets, and should be reminded that behavior such as pulling ears or poking eyes is not acceptable. Remind them that animals, like humans, must be treated with kindness and respect.

Myth 4: An Older Child Will Take Care of the Pet

It’s not realistic to expect a child to have full responsibility over the care of a dog or cat. However, kids can—and should—help take care of the pet with age-appropriate tasks. Even a young child can help by scooping food into a bowl, choosing a new toy or grooming the pet.

Myth 5: A Pet Is a Playmate

Kids must know that a pet is not a toy. A pet is not something to be given away once the novelty has worn off or because he had an accident in the house. Owning a pet can be a great way to teach children trust, responsibility and commitment. Veterinarians, trainers or breeders can help determine how best to deal with any behavior issues.

Fact: Pets and Children Can Live Happily Together

Caring for a pet can be a wonderful experience for kids. According to the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry, children who are raised with and develop positive feelings for pets are better equipped to develop trusting relationships with others. Living with pets can help kids develop empathy, compassion and non-verbal communication skills, as well as learn responsible behavior and respect for living things.